" As a self-proclaimed chatterbox, I thrive on connecting with others, sharing stories, and exploring the depths of our souls over a cup of coffee or a naughty private session."
It’s a perfect relaxing sunny day with some of the hottest bathing beauties out there on the beach, but we decided to take a moment away from the sun-kissed shores to sit down with someone who's captured hearts and minds in an entirely different realm: the cam star, RubyHarkins. As she joins us for a candid conversation, we dive deep into her world—exploring not only her career but also uncovering the layers of her life, her passions, and the aspirations that fuel her every day.
RubyHarkins embodies a journey of growth, sharing the impact of her career, lessons from fan interactions, and the milestones that shaped the journey to who she is today.
Join us as we uncover her story—a narrative woven with hard work and a strong spirit. From daring moments to personal and sexual discoveries, Ruby invites us into a world where each day brings new challenges and opportunities. As we chat over coffee, sharing laughter and insights, RubyHarkins reveals what it's like to carve out a niche in a world that celebrates diversity, creativity, and unabashed self-expression.
Ruby, your journey seems to have been quite transformative. Can you share how your life has changed, what you've discovered about yourself along the way, and how these discoveries have influenced your career and personal growth?
RubyHarkins: "My life has changed tremendously. I've discovered new possibilities for both financial and personal development, and through interacting with different people, I've learned a lot about myself. This journey has reinforced my belief in continuous improvement, which is a driving force behind my growth in both my career and personal life."
How do you handle criticism and challenges, and how have these experiences shaped your approach to your work? Additionally, what’s your view on how people judge those in the adult industry?
Ruby Harkins: "I take criticism in stride, understanding that it's inevitable in any career. Not everyone will always agree with you, and that's okay. For me, staying true to myself and my values—being honest, kind, and hard-working—is key. These experiences have taught me resilience and the importance of authenticity, which are crucial in the work I do. As for judgments on those in the adult industry, people often judge based on their own experiences or lack thereof. I wish those who haven't interacted with our community firsthand would withhold any negative comments. Such judgments can be harmful, potentially causing people to abandon their careers and dreams without truly understanding what our work entails."
How do you see your daily interactions with your fans contributing to your personal and professional growth?
Ruby Harkins: "Every interaction with my fans is an opportunity to learn and grow. Each conversation challenges me to improve and refine my approach, which ultimately strengthens the bond I have with my community."
You’ve mentioned perseverance and sincerity as important values. How do they impact your work?
Ruby Harkins: "Perseverance and sincerity are everything to me. They drive me to keep pushing and learning. Staying true to myself and my fans helps me build real connections that mean the world to me. It's all about staying dedicated and honest—it's what keeps this journey real and fulfilling."
Tell us about your secret passion for singing and how it integrates into your career.
Ruby Harkins: "Singing has always been a deep passion of mine. It's a way for me to connect with people on a different level and express myself creatively. While it's not something I've fully showcased to my fans, yet... it remains a significant part of who I am."
What advice would you give to newcomers entering the industry, based on your own experiences?
Ruby Harkins: "I would encourage newcomers to approach their journey with patience and self-compassion, understanding that growth takes time. It's crucial to remain true to yourself amidst the whirlwind of opportunities and challenges that this industry presents. Embrace each new experience with courage and authenticity, as these qualities not only define your personal brand but also help forge genuine connections with your audience. Remember, these will build the foundation of your success in this dynamic field, where every interaction and learning experience contributes to your evolution as a professional!"
How do you keep your interactions with fans natural and enjoyable, and how do you see these daily interactions shaping your approach?
Ruby Harkins: "I make sure my interactions are both natural and enjoyable by staying true to myself, remaining cool and grounded, and giving my fans my best energy always. Listening to my favorite music really helps me get into the groove and feel connected with them. Every day, each interaction with my fans is a test—a challenge that pushes me to improve constantly. This approach deepens my connection with my audience and helps them have a better experience too."
How would you describe your character, Ruby?
Ruby Harkins: "The character Ruby isn’t really a character; it's just me. That’s the most unique thing I bring to my shows – my true self."
How did you start working with ImLive?
Ruby Harkins: "I started working with ImLive through a studio that has had a longstanding partnership with them. They recommended the site to me, and I found it to be the perfect fit. They not only provide essential tools for my growth as a performer but also offer exciting competitions that have helped me build my presence and connect with a broader audience. It's been a pivotal platform for me to showcase my talents and develop my career in ways I hadn't imagined before."
What specific site features do you find most practical for strengthening your online presence?
Ruby Harkins: "I really enjoy using Monthly Video Contests, especially when I get to dress up in cosplay or explore themes like "Around the World in 80 Days." It's a fun way to bring creativity into my sessions and give fans something fresh to look forward to. Party contests are also a blast—they bring everyone together and add a friendly competitive edge that amps up the energy. The Lovense toy adds a playful twist to private shows, making them that much more personal. And who doesn't love Candy Shows and Group Cams? They create such a vibrant atmosphere where we can all have a great time together, and I love that! These features really make connecting with fans feel like hanging out with friends—it's all about having fun and making every moment count."
Tell us about a side project that gives insight into who you are beyond your public persona. What are some of your unique quirks and passions that your fans may not know about?
Ruby Harkins: "For many, it might not seem creative, but participating in a mineralogy course was special to me. I learned to recognize different types of stones and their history, and discovered more about their metaphysical properties and how they can affect our energy. That's cool, right?"
Do you have any special plans for the summer?
Ruby Harkins: "I haven’t thought of anything special yet, but I really enjoy walking in nature during the summer. Maybe I’ll try something special out there, keep your eyes peeled."
Before we finish, we must ask: Do you prefer being submissive or dominant?
Ruby Harkins: "Being submissive is easy for me; it feels natural and comfortable. But being dominant is a whole different game—it really pushes me out of my comfort zone and helps me grow. It’s exciting and satisfying in a way that’s completely different, and it definitely keeps things interesting and fresh."
Well, there you go! Ruby Harkins is a truly soulful cam girl, combining her passion for raw honesty and meaningful conversations with a natural charm that keeps her fans coming back for more. Beyond her online persona, she values constant improvement and deep connections above all else. With immense passion and a knack for connecting with others, Ruby continues to inspire and grow in